2. Ok, you’ve identified you are in a pattern, now it’s time to look at your part – what are you doing the same? Stop with the reasons why you are doing it the same and just focus on your part. There is no one person to blame.
For a pattern to be established everyone has to go along with their part over and over again – especially if it’s a negative pattern. The reason you are always broke isn’t because the universe is out to get you, it’s because not only do you make the same poor money decisions over and over, but you also believe yourself to be someone who is always broke. The universe is just showing up how you believe it to be. (Tip: Got to change your belief…)
As I have previously said, it does not do you any good to berate yourself for not getting it yet – you will. To change anything it takes practice and time. You have to intentionally respond differently to the same problems. This takes energy and a commitment to being present – you are not going to respond how you always have.
It won’t feel normal at first to respond differently and that’s ok. Some people around you may not like you changing the pattern and that’s ok too. When you are ready, you will make a change. For the alternative – staying in this less-than place – becomes more and more unacceptable as the days pass…
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