Recently I have been contacted by many previous clients that are “so close” to the change they seek – be it a new job, a move, a letting go, peace, whatever the transformation – so close…What to do when you are so close?
1. Remember you are so close. You have come very far, this “so close” anxiety is exactly what happens right before you reach your goal. When I entered month ten in pregnancy I was sure I was pregnant for life, but I would comfort myself with the knowledge I didn’t in fact know any woman that were pregnant for life…So close.
2. Ride the wave. Unfortunately one of the by-products of transformation is tension. There is this hinge point between what was and now what will be. Maybe you are experiencing delays or set-backs, miscommunications, bad luck , things breaking – stop, take a breath and sit down. You are on a wave, sit back and let it carry you.
3. Focus on the result you do want. Instead of getting hung up on the what-ifs and worst-case scenarios, focus on what you do want. Try meditating and see yourself working at that new job, or living in a new home, or truly living in peace…You are so close, closer then you know.
4. Laughter. When is the last time you had fun? Nothing helps “so close” become the past more then enjoying life right now. Watch a comedy, call a friend, whatever – just giggle, the more uncontrollable the better.
May you discover the delays were gifts and the transformation is richer for it…
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November 8th, 2010 at 8:50 am
Thanks a lot for this, I appreciate the info