For years, every time I looked at the Christian cross, I thought of death, betrayal and abandonment. I had been raised in a home with a recovering Catholic, my mother. Throughout her childhood she had the all-too-familiar experience of mean nuns and unsympathetic priests. Needless to say Christian symbols and the bible were caste in the most negative of light…but I alone, I found myself drawn to Christian beliefs…
I studied the bible first through the lens of English Literature in college, but I was not satisfied. Soon I found myself drawn into a church community when I was in my mid-twenties and reeling from a broken heart. There I discovered a loving God (quite different from my impressions as a child) yet still the bible and its many Christian symbols were meaningless to me…until several years ago.
We joined a local Christian Church when our kids were toddlers and I began attending weekly Bible study classes with our minister. It was around Easter and our minister asked me what I thought of the cross?
I replied a bit defensively, “Well, not a lot. I’m not sure what this die for my sins stuff is – what sins? I like to think about Jesus’ teachings instead – specifically from the mountain top.”
She smiled and said, “Well, I think you will discover there is more to it.” We then began discussing the disciples with the entire group and I was appalled. What? Was she questioning my understanding of Jesus and God? That I am not tied to that Catholic sin crap - I know she is also a recovering Catholic – this is leftover stuff…and I dismissed her words.
A few weeks later my world fell apart. Our son was hurt by a babysitter – shaken-baby syndrome. We didn’t know at the time that was what had happened – he just started having seizures. Up to 30 a day, both day and night. It was horrendous.
One day I noticed, I had become Mary, helplessly watching my child twist, writhe and fall down stairs over and over. My son’s experience was beyond my control. I couldn’t understand why this was happening. I could only helplessly pray and think of Mary. I had been so angry at her over the years – how could she stand by as her son was tortured and nailed to a cross? Didn’t she love him? Why didn’t she throw herself before the Romans to stop this madness? How could she abandon him and how could the father, God, not ‘save’ him?
And then I realized Mary, she couldn’t change Jesus’ path. Mary loved Jesus enough to stay with him as he followed his own soul’s calling. The calling of Jesus’ soul was to be with us – God with us – always. Thus he was bound to experience not only the joys of life but the pain too. When you are betrayed, God knows this pain through Jesus and Judas. When you are abandoned, God even knows this as Jesus cried out to God on the cross…
Suddenly I understood, the bible speaks of a Living God, who loves me enough to know my pain intimately, even on a cross. Today I look at the cross and see love. I know a God who is with me in my triumphs as well as my darkest hour, for didn’t you know? Jesus died for our sins.
The true definition of sin in the bible is “that which separates you from God.” I am no longer separated from God, for God is with me always – from sun shiny mountain tops to the dregs of despair, God is with me.
Our son recovered from the abuse suddenly – one day there were seizures and the next they were gone. I am forever grateful for this highly traumatic experience because the sin, the separation, has vanished from my life. I live every day knowing I am in relationship with a Living God and all things are possible. I know miracles first hand and I am grateful to be so blessed.
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April 17th, 2009 at 1:36 pm
This is a very powerful story on the symbolic nature of the cross and passion event. Years ago I read from a medical intuitive named Carloyn Myss an explanation of the story that gave me addition insights on how to view the cross experience.
I find it helpful to see the life of Jesus as a template for what is possible in living your divinity. In this template, everyone will have examples of experiences that test how you will respond to some of the more dramatic events in Jesus life. I will just comment on a few:
1. Lets start by saying Jesus was pursuing his life mission and showed us how to overcome obstacles along the road and how to face our fears in the face of incredible chaos and struggle in a time when very few had the emotional or intellectual capacity to understand what ei was symbolizing.
2. Jesus was often misunderstood and often alone in his understanding of matters so he was continually educating and preaching to increase vibrational consciousness. He did not let this sabottage his mission.
3. Jesus vibration was so elevated that he was able to see the big picture and everyone’s role without judgment and still hold unconditional love for all. Very few humans have been able to do this.
4. Jesus knew he would be betrayed and he responded with love. All of us has had the betrayal experience in our lives; how many of us can forgive unconditionally?
5. Jesus was abandoned by his closest allies and was all alone in the garden, and was denied being known by his friends that could help him, but he keep to his plan. All of us has experienced this in our lives but how many of us have continued on without judgment and self doubt and blame etc. for what is going on in our lives and not feeling like we are being persecuted.
6. Jesus endured terrible suffering and near the end broke down and asked “why me” but recovered because he understood the bigger plan and moved on to ascend to a higher state. This is also our lesson symbolically. When we think we are being persecuted unfairly can we move on and rise above and carry through to achieve our divine path; or will we fall short?
Jesus life was a model on how to overcome and show unconditional love and take claim to our divinity. God created man in his own image and Jesus said; these things and greater shall thou do.
That is what the cross means to me.